Ideal age to get married
Is there a so-called ideal age to get married? Yes? No? Mayyyybe?A couple of my friends are getting married this year...some are already married...hmm...is it somewhat too early? too late? just right? I think there isn't an ideal age to get married. Some ppl might want to choose to get married at a very early age...say 21...others choose to keep it till age 30 perhaps. I think age would not be the factor to determine it...rather...the factor would be if you are ready to make this commitment.
Getting married is easy (well...in a way easy coz all u need is to sign the paper). Keeping the marriage alive...now...THAT would be the challenge. I've seen a lot of ppl who have problems with keeping marriage alive...leading to a disasterous divorce. *sigh* Why oh why does that have to happen?
There's this quote that says;
A successful marriage is falling in love with the same person over and over
again.
Keyword - SAME PERSON.
I guess it's easier said than done. I still believe it can be done...that is IF you meet someone who would make you WANT to fall in love with him or her, over and over again. Hmm...Think there's such a thing?
posted by *chiaoju* @ 1:35 PM
1 Comments:
When i was a teenager, i thought the ideal age to get married is 25, because its the time when we started to look mature and still look young. But I'm 27 now and i think i am not young to get married, but simply i'm not ready to.
I started to become Financial Independant + Parents gave me freedom when i turned 24. I think i only started to enjoy Life at age 25. and now.. i'm back to single, i can enjoy my life more!! if i quit my current job, i wil enjoy to the fullest!!!
but there again, if you met someone that you are so sure you can spend your whole life with him, then you should go for it, doesn't matter how old u are or how much had u enjoy. because at the end of the day "A life cannot consider as [Complete] if you didn't get married and if you haven't become a parent"
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