Quote
Don't marry someone you can live with...marry someone you cannot live without...
And so life is expected to typically move in this direction - you date, you go steady, you get engaged, you get married, you have kids and you live as long as you can. I think 80% of the population in the world would have gone through each phase of this expected life process. 20% - might not have, coz they are still in diapers, crawling, toddling their way around life and just trying to get through school. *teehee*
This quote sorta did slap me in the face one fine day when I was talking to a good friend. He was telling me how true this quote really is. My question would be, is there such a person as someone whom you cannot live without? Taken for a fact that life goes on, with or without you, we shall look at our own working life. Some may say, the company might die without you - but in true fact, the company feels nothing without you. All the company needs is a replacement and the company is all good to go.
But is it the same in a r'ship? Aharrr...now that's the question. At one juncture in life, I believed that you must marry someone you can live with - living habits, certain behaviors, etc. My concept is, you must be able to take all his nonsense...keyword - must be able to. That's a force. Most of the time, you end up having couples arguing over the fact that they cannot stand each other anymore and split.
If he/she is someone you cannot live without, all these living habits, certain behaviors, would just be the basics. It wouldn't be in the consideration of "if you can take all his nonsense" philosophy. It would be part of you and losing this person is the last thing that is on your mind. But like I say, is there such a person?
I've had friends that say this is an unrealistic quote. It's something that would only happen in fairy tales. I think it happens, but I guess, life being fair, not all of us would have the chance to experience it. An ideal case - to have someone whom you not only can talk to, but a person where you want to wake up to, and want to sleep next to at night, a person who is your best friend, your lover, your everything.
Okie...crap...EMO-NYAAAAAAA AKU! ^_^ btw, HAPPY BOXING DAY!
posted by *chiaoju* @ 11:27 AM
1 Comments:
haaaaa...... in the end..... this phrase "Okie...crap...EMO-NYAAAAAAA AKU! ^_^ " shows that you must be emotionally influenced when you blogged about this topic.... :p hehehe....on second, thought maybe that's what makes it interesting about your blog....hmmmm.... oh well i'm getting confused myself....:p Then again, maybe you are a realistic person that often like to ponder about an ideal world. :s
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