Guys vs Gals
Hmmm...Ermmm...now...physically, it's very extremely obvious that there's a huge difference between a guy and a gal. No questions asked. However, in terms of the mentality, is it the same? I doubt it is.Well, gals in this era has always wanted to have equal treatment as of guys. I mean, everyone knows the whole deal about gals being mistreated in the past...not having equal rights in terms of voting...going places...etc. How about now? Are we (gals) being treated equally? Hmmmm...
I gave this issue a lot of thought...and guess what my conclusion is? The probablity of gals and guys being treated equally is pretty low. Why u might ask? Well, first and foremost, gals and guys are different...very different physically and mentally.
I once heard a person say...Gals will always be one step lower than guys. It's in the society. Or maybe it's just among the Asian Society. I kinda believe that (I know I'm a gal, and I'm suppose to stand up for the ladies clan...but it's the sad truth). Ppl give you that look when they know it's a gal who's going to be doing an audit...or if you are the person who's going to be teaching that group stuffs... (oh...maybe it's because I'm working in the manufacturing field...so the ppl I deal with day in day out are mainly guys...)
Gals tend to be more emotional when it comes to work...so perhaps that's another reason why we are at times at a disadvantage. Oh well...give me your thought if you have any... :) But guys, there are times when gals seriously can do the stuffs that you do! (i.e. play PS...and are good at it... ^_^) heheheh...
posted by *chiaoju* @ 9:27 PM
2 Comments:
yes i agree, althou we are both humans but ironically there's a gap of difference being placed in between..
equal treatment? i give it a "ha" okie another "ha" so that makes it "haha".. this is an issue yet to be resolved..could there be equality?
so what if you heard tat girls are one step lower? are you accepting that fact or are you fighting for a place in society, making your presense being felt? others presume the higher you are, the harder it is when you fall.. but you're not falling are you...
it never matters what other ever think, it only matters how you think bout yourself.. people would always judge you no matter how good nor bad your actions were.. even if its the most outstanding result, people will find something to poke on it.. thats how humans are, finding others flaws so they can feel good bout themself..
how do you think? do you always care on what people's want and neglect your own needs? as for me, people would never stop wanting as everyone is greedy, their hungers is like the black hole ... maybe cause their heart is black too.. who knows..
in conclusion, there is no conclusion as every has their own thought in mind.. but for me, how you treat a person shows what kind a person you're...so stop judging other's and start judging yourself.. hypocrits...
Seeking equal treatment amongst human goes on the same line as discrimination. And only people who are "judgemental" does these kind of things (avoid your kids from this type of people!).
Be it gender, race, body size, dressing, skin color - there's always an element of stereotyping and discrimination.
But back to gals-n-boyz... no matter how equal we think we should be, at the end of the day, when the lady walks, the man opens the door for her. And THAT's the ideal world.
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